The first day is a very special moment is a person’s life and we all have butterflies in our stomach for a good reason. But what if things don’t turn out the way you expected? Or, you find that the person is not similar to the one you used to talk? Well, then instead of making excuses be an adult and tackle the situation smartly and maturely. Here in this article, we have shared some ways to deal with bad first date.
1. Don’t stress about it
Don’t stress over the fact that your first date didn’t turn out well. Remember that it’s your first date and things usually don’t fall into place. Many people will come in your life and one day you will surely find the perfect one for yourself.
2. Be ready with a backup plan
Keep a trusted person and friend ready to save you from the situation. All you need is to send an SOS message so that they can call you and then help you to get out of the date.
3. Be honest
It is best, to be honest as we all are adults and mature enough to handle rejection. If you feel that you date is not going on well then you can gently tell them that taking things further is not a good idea.
4. End your date in a tactful way
You can simply say that “I’m sorry but I need to be at home in an hour”. This simple statement can end your date in a simple way without hard feelings.
5. Think about the second chance
If you think that the person with whom you went on the first date was not completely shitty then you can think about giving them a second chance instead of completely writing the person off. Usually, it takes little time to know a person and feel the love.
6. Go your own way
If the date is not going according to the way you wanted, then you can go your own way. Like, don’t accept a ride back to home. That’s it! This will signal them that you are not interested to go back with them.
So, these were the few ways to deal with bad first date.